Be it a personality quirk, something they’re wearing, or just the way they look. What makes them instantly hot?
Most people are going to say personally, but I am going to go with breast size.
There’s no cheat code to get them to like you, dude.
Didn’t say it was for me
Instantly? It’s a somewhat vague term, but magnanimity, having “loftiness of spirit.” To me, it means that when they enter a room they carry a subtle gravity. Their eyes are focused on what and who is around them, taking in each in turn with a clear understanding of what they see but a respect for what they don’t. A trim smile that welcomes greetings and promises warm words in return. They breathe with the calm ease of someone healthy and comfortable in their own skin, and with each step they appear to not just approach their physical destination, but their own personal fulfillment.
Belief in and support for Universal Basic Income.
A good wink. A guy can be medium attractive or not my type, but if they make a little joke and then give me individually a subtle wink, I’m smitten.
Not talking about a compliment followed by a wink. A joke, and then they let me in on it with them with a wink.
I am the total opposite, if you wink at me I’m going to be wholly creeped out.
Ô-Ô
In love yet?
Yes, but not with them eyes
Being kind
A nice, plump dumper.
Big tits.
Fine, you’re my wing man. I’ll take the flat-chested friend, you get the thick one.
Hold my beer.
Couple of girls with average breasts eyeing us at the bar. Now we’re fighting over which one has the stuffed bra.
“Fuck it. Let’s be tacky and just ask.”
Most insightful. Heartfelt, even
Kindness, low ego, emotional intelligence, positive mindset.
Instantly hot? Sexuality. Dressing in clothing that shows off their body, the way they smile, being flirty, a sparkle in their eye, etc.
Being hot is just about attraction to me. It tells me they can be fun. Now, you can tank that hotness in an instant by being rude to a waiter, being shallow, unable to hold a conversation, etc. In my experience hot people tend to have weaker personalities because they don’t have to work on them as much. Hot is often not worth it, but it can’t be… hot.
When someone laughs at my jokes they instantly become more attractive.
It’s not the only thing needed to make someone hot - I don’t think I know of one thing that would do the trick regardless of anything else… but it’s a big leap towards it for anyone, because it combines them laughing and having fun (which is attractive) with making me feel appreciated and included and good about myself (which opens me up socially to feel attraction).
On the flip side, someone who doesn’t laugh at my jokes will become irrevocably unattractive regardless of anything else.
For me, I’m good as long as they “get” the joke. If they think I’m abysmally unfunny, especially if they audibly groan, that’s just as good
I suppose, as long as they actually enjoy it - painful groan or not.
I’m luckily not attracted to people who don’t enjoy my company, hopefully neither are you.
I think it’s impossible to tell? Terrible abusive relationship with someone who starts off and you’re the light of their world, compared to someone who actively avoided you for years and then ends up being a bestie for life. Yeah
I’m a lonely male so the answer is if they give me a modicum of attention and kindness.
Heyyyyyyy
I’m a non-lonely male and my answer is basically the same.
Anti-consumerism, it’s a shame so few people possess it.
Hey
It’s probably just the economy.
Aside from all the things that are instant turn-offs…
Being hopeful.
Also seem to get drawn to BPDBeing my wife
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Hi honey 🥹
I also choose this guy’s wife.
I choose this guy’s wife’s husband.
Assuming she’s married to a dude.
