It sounds like the right thing for both of you is to reflect on what you are getting from being together and whether or not being together prevents you from doing things that are important to you?
It seems to me she feels she wants to still continue the marriage, but also recognises that you have different needs. Would this arrangement be good for you? If not, what would?
You still have a lot of life ahead of you, whatever you do, live it well.
I don’t and the fact I don’t have to practice and listen to myself suck.