

I thought you were being hyperbolic and then scrolled down.
Holy shit, it’s no wonder sex and relationships are crashing through the floor right now. Ya’ll don’t know how to have human interactions anymore.
Nobody bats an eye when it’s worded like “My bud told me I couldn’t do this in 8 hours, said I should call a pro, I said I could do it.” You people out there have no idea what the tone is like here.
If your partner isn’t a friend who can challenge you and be your “bud” you’re not with a good partner. Is this what you guys think relationships are really like? Dancing on fucking eggshells and being given ultimatums? It’s a goddamn self report.



I carried a CCW for years and finally gave it up because it’s a huge hassle to always have to be aware of. It’s a presence that doesn’t give me comfort, it made me always aware of its presence and that’s not how I want to experience the world. I would go back to carrying if I move to a more rural area again with less chance of immediate response of emergency services or other people.