

Nah, I did understand it like that.
I posted that comment, because people generally wildly underestimate how common depression is. Because of that and because they don’t know how to deal with depression, they will look for other “explanations”, like yeah, sure, my kid’s just lazy. And that even despite these other “explanations” being extremely toxic and worsening depression.
So, this basic fact, that depression is among the most common disorders, would be part of my rebuttal. In hopes that she can accept that and help you work through it, like an adult should, rather than this silly game of peek-a-boo, where she hopes for it to not exist, so long as she doesn’t believe in depression. That is not helping anyone.






Calling someone “smooth-brained” always felt backwards.
Like, I understand that brains are supposed to be wrinkly and there’s an actual disorder where the brain doesn’t have those wrinkles, which leads to developmental delays: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lissencephaly
But it still sounds to me like you’re just calling them “smooth” as in “cool”.