I’ve noticed that there seems to be an emphasis on being extremely serious at all times, as if every single comment is a PhD dissertation being evaluated or something. There’s like this weird, subtle one upmanship about every little thing and a lot of people are very nitpicky and judgmental. It kind of takes the fun out of being on here, TBH. Or am I the only one experiencing this?

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    8 days ago

    Take a look at my post history, you would be surprised at the positivity I usually comment with - I have no patience for sexist men though.

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      Yeah you love spewing insults lol

      I’m also self aware enough to know i can be a shithead and i’m not out here whining and pretending i’m not part of the problem either

      Your name is recognizable and i have seen countless comments from you that rub me the wrong way

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        If you know you’re part of the problem, why not… stop? You don’t have to be a shithead. It’s actually really easy to treat people with respect.

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          Because I don’t agree with the OP that it’s an issue. I think that on anon boards you can act however you want. There are better places if you are this sensitive.

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            You can act however you want, but if you act like a shithead all the time you’re probably gonna get a lot of shit back. That’s fine if that’s what you want, but in that case you gotta have a thick enough skin for it.

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              You can. I would have blocked you if I wasn’t ok with it.

              I’m merely pointing out that you have no room to complain about hostility here. Youre a hypocrite

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                  8 days ago

                  No I’m pretty sure our first date would last max 30 seconds lol

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                    8 days ago

                    Putting two and two together is a real struggle for you, isn’t it?

                    I do hope you have a better day than you seem to be having. Ciao.

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        Yeah, which insults do I throw out most? I don’t name call hardly ever unless it’s to point out misogyny and even then it’s to call them a misogynist. I’m serious, feel free to go through my post history. You won’t find what you’re looking for there.

        I’m self aware enough to know that I am rude to men who do not respect women. I don’t deny that.

        I’ve seen a lot of comments that rub me the wrong way as well.

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            No, I hate sexist men who can’t respect a women’s only community.

            I hate men who rape.

            I hate men who insist on their viewpoint being the only correct one and waiving away women’s perspectives and views.

            That’s very different from hating all men.

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                What do you get out of this? Does it make you hard to needle at women? Does it get your rocks off to pick at outspoken women?

                Again, my post history would dispel this image who have built of me in your head if you ever bother to take a look. It feels better to hate me though, doesn’t it?

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                  Reread the OP and tell me you are not behaving this exact way right now. You are completely insufferable. Chill out. Lol

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                    I’m chill, I’m just replying to you lol

                    You can’t answer some questions in return? What does this interaction do for you?