I’ve noticed that there seems to be an emphasis on being extremely serious at all times, as if every single comment is a PhD dissertation being evaluated or something. There’s like this weird, subtle one upmanship about every little thing and a lot of people are very nitpicky and judgmental. It kind of takes the fun out of being on here, TBH. Or am I the only one experiencing this?

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      8 days ago

      You can. I would have blocked you if I wasn’t ok with it.

      I’m merely pointing out that you have no room to complain about hostility here. Youre a hypocrite

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          No I’m pretty sure our first date would last max 30 seconds lol

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            Putting two and two together is a real struggle for you, isn’t it?

            I do hope you have a better day than you seem to be having. Ciao.

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              8 days ago

              Do you think it would last longer? I am making a joke about how wildly incompatible we are

              Chill

              You will have to elaborate because im a dumb man who doesn’t understand what you mean with the ex gf comment. You’re annoying but there is no way you as as evil as my ex lmao

              Unless you accuse random people of rape. Please don’t do this

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                I promise you I don’t accuse people of rape and would never. I really was going to leave the convo there, but saw your edit and do want to reassure you.

                That’s fucked up and I’m sorry you went through that.

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                  I think you read my thread about losing all my friends. Yeah i was falsely accused of rape and almost lost everything. Time has passed and I am still wished dead by many. I haven’t found any way to defend myself or redeem myself. Nobody will ever believe me. Thanks for your words. Shit sucks.

                  I agree with your view on women being oppressed, but holy hell, being the man in this particular situation is plain unfair. It’s a miracle I didn’t kill myself

                  To be clear I didn’t “go through it” - this is going to follow me for the rest of my entire life I think.

                  And I know for a fact you aren’t this evil because a narcissist would never carry themselves the way you do. They pretend they are harmless until behind closed doors.

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                    I’m really glad you’re still here. Yeah that really sucks and no one deserves to go through that. It’s not a suffering competition, no one wins for additional suffering and I truly view that for everyone. Even the guys I might hold in some contempt lol

                    Not that you want any advice from a 40 year old queer mom, but have you looked into moving to a different city? Sometimes a fresh start is worth it. You’re worth it.