That’s completely valid. I’ve done plenty of trauma dumping here on Lemmy. 99% of it about my ex wife and the shit she’s put me through (massive debt, constant manipulation, threats of suicide, making me feel guilty for literally everything wrong with the world, etc).
Lol are you me. Except for me it was on reddit.
My trauma all happened after the API change that prompted the move to Lemmy. If yours happened before that, maybe we have the same ex lol