To you, what constitutes a good sense of humor?

  • kelpie_is_trying@lemmy.world
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    21 hours ago

    In my own opinion, ya for sure. Many others may not agree lol

    It is difficult for me take anything but the most dire things without a little goofiness. And even when things are a bit too real, I am often the one still floating on hope and cracking (admittedly very stupid) jokes.

    Not sure how I’d define a good sense of humor tho tbh. A willingness to laugh at yourself definitely counts for something. Knowing better than to punch down while also meeting people on their level is a plus too. Being able to direct attention, something like a stage magician but with words, also plays a big part in the equation.

    Ig a good sense of humor is one that takes into account other people (socially, emotionally, and practically (as in using how their presence affects the room) all at once) while also subverting expectation. Even better if the two are playing off each other. Crowd work is often considered cheap by standups, but it’s a great way to break down barriers and get a room onto the same page…when they know how to use that tool effectively, at least.