I need some third-party opinions. I’m a Swiss guy currently in Cambodia. I came here on holiday and met a girl at a restaurant in Siem Reap. We talked for a bit and she offered to show me around the area. We hung out together for a week, during which we also hooked up. It was a great week. Then she invited me to stay with her at her family’s house. I accepted because I thought, why not? I’ve been here for three weeks now and had my visa extended by 30 days. I work remotely, so I’m able to support myself financially. My parents hate me being here because they think I’m being taken advantage of financially. For example, they were upset when I told them I bought some things for the house to make my stay more comfortable. Personally, I don’t feel like I’m being taken advantage of.
Congrats on your nuptials!
Seriously, though, I don’t think you’re necessarily being taken advantage of. If they didn’t ask you for anything you’ve given them, then I don’t think you need to worry. Just don’t do anything you wouldn’t do for any other girlfriend and you’ll be fine.
Asian countries are pretty conservative. If she’s introduced you to her family, and isn’t hiding you, then that probably means she’s happy and sees a future with you. Maybe it’s because she sees you as a good catch. Maybe it’s because she’s head over heels in love with you. Whatever the reason, whether or not that future comes about is up to you guys, but if it does and you end up together on a long term basis, this will make a fun story to tell people. Just take it day by day and enjoy yourself. Don’t think too much about the future. Don’t let anxiety or doubts cloud your feelings for her.
Cause at the end of the day, while this could turn out to be a cautionary tale, it could just as easily turn out to be the rest of your life.