I need some third-party opinions. I’m a Swiss guy currently in Cambodia. I came here on holiday and met a girl at a restaurant in Siem Reap. We talked for a bit and she offered to show me around the area. We hung out together for a week, during which we also hooked up. It was a great week. Then she invited me to stay with her at her family’s house. I accepted because I thought, why not? I’ve been here for three weeks now and had my visa extended by 30 days. I work remotely, so I’m able to support myself financially. My parents hate me being here because they think I’m being taken advantage of financially. For example, they were upset when I told them I bought some things for the house to make my stay more comfortable. Personally, I don’t feel like I’m being taken advantage of.
Would you do that for a girl back home with whom you had a random hookup but no serious intentions?
If “no” then then you’re probably leading them on thinking you’re getting married.
If anything, you’re taking advantage of them, living in their house and sleeping with their daughter.
Came here to say this. If you aren’t planning to stay, you need to be very clear with this girl about your intentions…otherwise it’s you who is misleading them.
I mean seriously brother. Moving into her family’s home after sleeping together? Buying furniture? What message do you think that sends?
^^^Ding ding ding!