I need some third-party opinions. I’m a Swiss guy currently in Cambodia. I came here on holiday and met a girl at a restaurant in Siem Reap. We talked for a bit and she offered to show me around the area. We hung out together for a week, during which we also hooked up. It was a great week. Then she invited me to stay with her at her family’s house. I accepted because I thought, why not? I’ve been here for three weeks now and had my visa extended by 30 days. I work remotely, so I’m able to support myself financially. My parents hate me being here because they think I’m being taken advantage of financially. For example, they were upset when I told them I bought some things for the house to make my stay more comfortable. Personally, I don’t feel like I’m being taken advantage of.

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    28 days ago

    stay with her at her family’s house. I accepted

    Please clarify the facts: was it a visit, like half a day, or do you stay there for some weeks now?

    I think there is some chance that you are married now :)

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        28 days ago

        Then you are going to meet their further expectations. Sooner or later.

        AFAIK it is possible in many countries to marry by spoken words only (no papers needed).

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          Which amount to nothing of he is able to get on a plane and fly away. I can’t imagine many countries willing to extradite someone because of some abandonment style crime in that situation.