When someone laughs at my jokes they instantly become more attractive.
It’s not the only thing needed to make someone hot - I don’t think I know of one thing that would do the trick regardless of anything else… but it’s a big leap towards it for anyone, because it combines them laughing and having fun (which is attractive) with making me feel appreciated and included and good about myself (which opens me up socially to feel attraction).
On the flip side, someone who doesn’t laugh at my jokes will become irrevocably unattractive regardless of anything else.
I think it’s impossible to tell? Terrible abusive relationship with someone who starts off and you’re the light of their world, compared to someone who actively avoided you for years and then ends up being a bestie for life. Yeah
When someone laughs at my jokes they instantly become more attractive.
It’s not the only thing needed to make someone hot - I don’t think I know of one thing that would do the trick regardless of anything else… but it’s a big leap towards it for anyone, because it combines them laughing and having fun (which is attractive) with making me feel appreciated and included and good about myself (which opens me up socially to feel attraction).
On the flip side, someone who doesn’t laugh at my jokes will become irrevocably unattractive regardless of anything else.
For me, I’m good as long as they “get” the joke. If they think I’m abysmally unfunny, especially if they audibly groan, that’s just as good
I suppose, as long as they actually enjoy it - painful groan or not.
I’m luckily not attracted to people who don’t enjoy my company, hopefully neither are you.
I think it’s impossible to tell? Terrible abusive relationship with someone who starts off and you’re the light of their world, compared to someone who actively avoided you for years and then ends up being a bestie for life. Yeah