I made a similar post a couple of years ago, but I think it’s time again after seeing a few nice-guy/incel posts here. So, guys who have made it to the other side, what would you say to your previous self? I’ll leave my own personal answer in a comment below.
Do mushrooms to snap yourself out of your self pity spiral
Just be a better person
Also become a girl
“Become a girl.”
Unironically being just slightly more feminine helps turn around your life a lot.
Turns out the hyper masculinity thing is a huge turnoff for most women. Not all, but a huge percentage of women eyeroll at the big trucks and the macho atmosphere.
Mushrooms have helped me tremendously as well
Wish granted, now creeps are out to fuck you, and you still didn’t find love.
Shortly after the mushrooms and realizing it wasn’t cringe to care about others, I met my now wife of 9 years.
I’ll admit I just got around to becoming a girl last year, but if I didn’t meet someone, I would have transitioned like 8 years ago.
Wow, so this is an actual life story!
Happy for you two, and hope your wife was gentle and welcoming about your transition!
Thanks :3
She’s the best, super supportive.
It gets better, but omg is finding someone hard even 9 years ago.
Just gotta try to be a good person and keep rolling those dice.
I mean, I’m guessing OP eventually actually did it, so maybe or maybe not.