• TeNppa@sopuli.xyz
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    2 days ago

    I never understood why people feel the need to fight with their SO so much? Why can’t the issues be talked constructively and respectfully towards each other? Why the need to let things get so bad that you need to fight over things?

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        1 day ago

        I was in a relationship like this and it was a PR nightmare because all our friends/family would think we are “fighting” like domestic violence when in actuality it was simple difference of opinion, like whether we should budget or what to have for dinner.

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      2 days ago

      They don’t know how to talk constructively. Emotional topics get, well, emotional