

Have you tried communicating directly to her “I want to do this, and I want to do it with you. Please join me because this is a way I enjoy spending time with you”?
This especially applies to all relationships. I recall I didn’t realise it when I was young.
But of course this requires that both of you get it, not just you alone.





I bought an expensive e-bike exactly 2 years ago. Here the public transport costs 70 €/month. The bike hasn’t quite paid for itself yet, but it’s getting close!