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Cake day: July 8th, 2023

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    1. Not enough people.

    2. People here are way bigger smug assholes than even Reddit.

    3. Sense of invulnerability and mod neglegence just because Lemmy is defederated. People naively think that makes it invulnerable to similar issues as Reddit (like toxicity/hivemind/bad modding.)

    Back in 2023 I joined Lemmy because Reddit got rid of 3rd party apps. At first I was extremely impressed with the content here. While the community was small, meme channels were hilarious and had fantastic content. Same with the nsfw communities. However, now all the communities are filled with AI slop, political ragebait posting, onlyfans subsciption bait posts, and various other trash. So as far as I’m concerned Lemmy seems to be circling the drain. I can’t in good faith tell anyone I know to switch to Lemmy. If a friend were to ask me “hey man, how’s Lemmy?” My honest answer would be that it kinda fucking sucks.









  • As a stoned person in their 30s, I have no idea what to say here. I guess I’ll try:

    OP, I think you’re just doing what 21 year old kids do. You’re experiencing life and grieving a break-up. If you like banging this douche-bro and you’re safe, then I say keep doing it as long as you’re getting what you want. As soon as you’re not, break it off. And if you ever feel unsafe then end it immediately.

    You’ll get over you’re ex and move on and have other relationships. Nothing you’re saying here sounds out of the ordinary or surprising. You’ll be aight. Just make sure you’re not using sex as a coping mechanism and maybe take some time to chill and just be single. See some friends. Play some games. Eat some fancy food. Just chill and re-evaluate things when you feel better.

    Edit: Just checked OP’s post history. OP, you are absolutely not chillin right now. You gotta chill.