is being yourself, not artificially bending towards what you think will look attractive.

If I’m understanding you correctly. Those things aren’t necessarily exclusive to each other in my opinion. I am constantly thinking of something funny to say because I like saying funny or flirtatious things. And you can learn these things, yet still hold true to oneself.

as a customer?

No, no, as her supervisor.

Must a be one hell of a coffee.

And how’s that going for ya?

See? Bill Gates is one of us! /s