I’ve noticed that there seems to be an emphasis on being extremely serious at all times, as if every single comment is a PhD dissertation being evaluated or something. There’s like this weird, subtle one upmanship about every little thing and a lot of people are very nitpicky and judgmental. It kind of takes the fun out of being on here, TBH. Or am I the only one experiencing this?

  • velma@sh.itjust.works
    83·
    1 month ago

    When I used Reddit, there was a particular humour that had an interesting vibe about it, but the blackout and mod bans had me leave for the fediverse and while I miss that brand of humour, I don’t regret leaving and from time to time I see the seeds of it here.

    You also have to remember, this is by comparison a pretty small community and it’s going through growing pains, triggered by regular influx from other platforms.

    On the whole, I’m glad I’m here.

    I fully agree with you, I enjoy Lemmy more than Reddit for a few reasons. And now that I’ve been here long enough to tailor my subscription feed, it’s great. There’s quite a few thoughtful and interesting users here that I very much enjoy running into from time to time.

    There is a feeling that this place is not dissimilar to early Reddit or 4chan and those places had their issues with being predominately male as well. I’m not going anywhere and I’m hoping to help shape this place to be even more welcoming for a larger range of different people.