• cockmushroom@reddthat.com
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    9 小时前

    I’ll never understand why the “pull yourself up by your bootstraps” people see it as everybody else’s responsibility to cushion the inumerable blows from their abusive relationships with their employers.

    • Alwaysnownevernotme@lemmy.world
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      9 小时前

      Because it’s not in any way advice. It’s a mantra they say to excuse their empathic atrophy.

      It’s like an abuser asking why you make them do it.