yeah that’s a shitty/toxic relationship and you need to get out ASAP. Your life will become so much better single than in a relationship with someone who makes you feel like crap constantly.

especially if it’s a person who feels like crap constantly and blames you for it. which is usually the root of the problem… their expectation that you solve their problems for them.

now, if the problem is you feel like crap and blame your partner for not solving your issues for you, you are the one with the issues.