uhmbah@lemmy.ca to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 16 hours agoAt your age, what surprises you the most about yourself?message-squaremessage-square60fedilinkarrow-up194arrow-down11file-text
arrow-up193arrow-down1message-squareAt your age, what surprises you the most about yourself?uhmbah@lemmy.ca to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 16 hours agomessage-square60fedilinkfile-text
Most of my life I have been an attentive, giving and generous man. At 60, I’m surprised at how self-centered have become.
minus-squareQuazatron@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up13·13 hours agoI’m surprised at how much more methodic and organized I’ve become. Taking notes to get thoughts out of my head helps me reduce brain clutter. Turning chores into pleasurable activities (podcasts while cleaning or cooking) also helped. I’ve also grown more patient with other people’s actions. People don’t usually act with malice, more often it is just plain inability. Also, very little fucks remain to be given.
I’m surprised at how much more methodic and organized I’ve become. Taking notes to get thoughts out of my head helps me reduce brain clutter.
Turning chores into pleasurable activities (podcasts while cleaning or cooking) also helped.
I’ve also grown more patient with other people’s actions. People don’t usually act with malice, more often it is just plain inability.
Also, very little fucks remain to be given.