I read some people who vent on their posts or talk about problems they face in life and the replies they get is, no you are the problem, fuck you.
On Reddit, the only thing that is close to this is when women complain about their boyfriends, they got told to leave them, whatever is her complaint about.
Any explanation?
Disclaimer: I am not talking about my own experiences here, but rather what I read in other posts, my observations could be wrong.
The handful of times I can remember seeing someone complaining about a situation being told they were the problem, it seemed to me that they likely really were the problem.
It’s just like way back in team games, like Dota (the original one, I am old like that). People will always blame anyone but themselves, including their teammates. But in the end the only thing you can improve is your own game, even if that means accounting for other people’s weaknesses.
But it never was something people liked to hear.