I read some people who vent on their posts or talk about problems they face in life and the replies they get is, no you are the problem, fuck you.

On Reddit, the only thing that is close to this is when women complain about their boyfriends, they got told to leave them, whatever is her complaint about.

Any explanation?

Disclaimer: I am not talking about my own experiences here, but rather what I read in other posts, my observations could be wrong.

  • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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    5 hours ago

    yep.

    IME people who embrace personal responsibility generally don’t whine/complain that much. those who do so pathologically… absolutely refuse to take responsibility for themselves and angry/frustrated that other people won’t do it for them.

    and the pathological people will hate anyone who calls them out. they will seek people who tell them it isn’t their fault and how they are perfect as they are.