I made a similar post a couple of years ago, but I think it’s time again after seeing a few nice-guy/incel posts here. So, guys who have made it to the other side, what would you say to your previous self? I’ll leave my own personal answer in a comment below.
Back in my incel years, a “female me” would’ve been a dream lol. I still lacked self-steem, but had a disproportionate view on my self worth despite being unremarkable in just about everything.
You sound like a regular person to me.