They shouldn’t be able to do that!

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    That style of blocking makes sense for more personal social media, but I don’t think it fits a public forum like the Threadiverse. On Reddit, bad actors were able to weaponize blocking to hide from anyone who would disagree with them, anyone who would push back against misinformation. That did a lot more harm than good.

    Everything you post here is public, and you should expect that anyone can see it, even people you do not like. If you don’t want to see someone you don’t like, that’s what blocking is for, but you shouldn’t expect to be able control who can see your posts when they’re all public to begin with.

    If something is so sensitive that you think you need to hide it from someone you don’t like, then this probably isn’t the platform to post it on at all.

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        My main experience with blocking is when people use it to “get the last word” in an argument. They’ll write up a response - often containing questions and challenges to my position - and then immediately block me after posting it so that it will look like I gave up in the face of their arguments.

        I usually just edit my previous comment with whatever responses seem necessary, playing an Uno Reverse on them since they’ll be the ones who never see it.

        It’s still rather annoying, though, because if other people also respond Reddit’s brain-dead implementation prevents me from responding to other people who have responded to someone who blocked me.

        I am glad that the Fediverse has a much more sane approach to blocking that doesn’t let it be weaponized like that.

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          At the time when I became inactive on Reddit, Azerbaijan was building up to finish the Nagarno Karrabach conflict once and for all. There was a lot of blatant anti Armenian, pro Azerbaijani misinformation being posted in relevant discussions (that they were tolerant, only wanting peace, there was never any ethnic cleansing, …), and most of those comments went without anyone posting a simple fact check to debunk it.

          I suspected that they had been sharing a blocklist and had blocked most of those who would call them out on their bullshit. I didn’t bother either since I just expected to be blocked as well and I had basically given up on the platform anyhow. I found swapping accounts to read threads annoying as hell, so it was easier to not comment and just be silently disappointed in humanity.

          The fact checks that I did see at the time, were mostly posted as a reply to the top comment of the chain, hoping to go unnoticed by the one spreading misinformation, but that will only work for so long. Reddit is fucked when it comes to discussing political news or gauging public opinion (imo), it’s now designed for spreading misinformation (imo again).

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          The worst part IMO is that if they commented anywhere in the chain you’re blocked from that entire chain. Say you’re having a nice conversation back and forth about something, then they reply to the original comment (not even seeing you) now you’re blocked from the entire thread of comments.

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      Some users would write their reply and then quickly block the other person so their points couldn’t be contested.

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      I’d call what you’re describing “muting” rather than blocking.

      I used to agree with you, but then I spoke with some people from persecuted minorities, and this style of blocking just gives power to their abusers rather than keeping their communities and themselves safe.

      Yes they can get a new account, but it’s another hurdle, and if we erect enough hurdles then it’ll catch enough of them. Defense in depth.

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        We’ve seen the problems with Reddit’s style of blocking already.

        If someone’s being truly abusive, that’s something you should report to moderators or instance admins.

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          I agree it has problems, but that doesn’t mean that anything is better.

          Reporting someone is good, but isn’t that subject to the exact same reasons why “it won’t work”? If reddit style blocking someone isn’t effective anyways, why would admin bans be effective?
          This assumes that admins and mods even have the capacity to deal with all this shit, which seems to be very uncertain.

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            I don’t understand what you mean. Moderator bans do work, that’s a moderator’s job.

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              a common response I’ve been getting is “blocking doesn’t work, they just need to make a new account”
              but then they say “if its really a problem, then they just need to report the user”
              but if making a new account would defeat blocking, then making a new account would defeat reporting a user. its either effective in both places or neither place.

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                That isn’t what I said. You’re replying to me to talk about somebody else’s argument, while completely ignoring mine.

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                  sorry i was getting it mixed up, i’ve had a very similar conversations a few times and that rebuttal came up multiple times.

                  mods and admins are overworked, and they can’t always be expected to keep up to date with dogwhistles along with everything else they have to manage. besides, harassment doesn’t always appear to break ToS - starting rumours and spreading lies about someone can be very difficult to prove to a mod, but can have huge repercussions in some communities.
                  and besides, it can take a while before mods/admins are able to take action.

                  IMO I think a few things should exist.

                  I should be able to prevent someone from replying to my content even if I can’t prevent them from seeing it.
                  Additionally, I think there should be a best effort to make invite-only/private communities. I know that the fediverse makes this technically difficult, but having something is better than having nothing.