I assumed that this was standard behaviour/etiquette, though I’m realizing maybe it’s actually not so common, and I want to know if I’m the weird one
If you don’t- why not?
(VPN voting enabled at the expense of allowing multiple votes per user- pls don’t abuse this for shits and giggles)
Blud sequestering themselves from men is literally the stated goal of that kind of community. So… yeah? If people want to be sequestered that does involve sequestering themselves somewhere. Maybe if you feel like those kind of places are hard to find you should engage in some praxis and spread the word about them rather than crying at me because I feel othered by a “no men allowed” sign planted in a public forum. Wanting a safe space is valid. Trying to force people you dont like out of an open space to create that safe space is not valid.