TehBamski@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 7 hours agoWhat are three questions you can ask someone new to know if they are friend material or not?message-squaremessage-square28fedilinkarrow-up138arrow-down13
arrow-up135arrow-down1message-squareWhat are three questions you can ask someone new to know if they are friend material or not?TehBamski@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 7 hours agomessage-square28fedilink
minus-squareFlashMobOfOne@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up18arrow-down1·6 hours agoMy dad, when I was a kid, used to open the door quickly, look down at my visiting friend and say “Who the hell are you?” Then he’d shut the door abruptly, wait 3-4 seconds, then open it, laugh, and welcome them in. If you can do that and they don’t get offended, they’re friend material.
minus-squareRadicalEagle@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up19arrow-down1·6 hours agoWide implementation of this technique would certainly explain why anxious/nervous people would have fewer friends.
My dad, when I was a kid, used to open the door quickly, look down at my visiting friend and say “Who the hell are you?”
Then he’d shut the door abruptly, wait 3-4 seconds, then open it, laugh, and welcome them in.
If you can do that and they don’t get offended, they’re friend material.
Wide implementation of this technique would certainly explain why anxious/nervous people would have fewer friends.
no.