I genuinely feel like no matter what I do, psychopaths can always pretty much immediately defect me as the perfect victim.

I think it’s partly because I’m ugly, partly because I’m sensitive, and they can just tell I’m a weak person.

It’s making my life a living hell, no matter how hard I try I just can’t blend it, I can’t force myself to act a certain way, it’s exhausting to me

Help…

  • offendicula@fedia.io
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    3 days ago

    I recommend reading The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker. It’s available for free at archive.org. It describes how predators work and how regular people can stay safe from them.

    • CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al
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      2 days ago

      100% agree with this. Our gut instinct is trying to tell us things and we often ignore it. I ALWAYS trust mine.