Most of my life I have been an attentive, giving and generous man. At 60, I’m surprised at how self-centered have become.

  • yermaw@sh.itjust.works
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    6 hours ago

    I recently visited Blackpool Tower, which has a glass bottom bit near the top where you walk on glass and can see a massive, definitely lethal, drop underneath you. I was petrified to get on it, and could only walk on the glass by looking upwards.

    Until that moment I thought I was still brave. Im scared of heights but fear never really stopped me from doing much before. Ive avoided certainties out of pragmatic fear, but I’d never known myself to be scared of fear itself until that moment.

    Going to the glass and finding myself unable to walk onto it was very surprising. I even told my wife “huh, this is new…”

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      20 minutes ago

      I have a problem like that with man made static heights.Sounds weirdly specific but Rollercoasters dont bother me, flying is fine and edges of cliffs are ok. But a railing on a hotel balcony or glass floor over a drop… GET FUCKED.